أنا عارفة انك بتسأل الشباب فقط بس ممكن اقول رأيي؟
Okay, it’s going to be hard for me to write all this in Arabic, but here’s what I have to say:
In my opinion, the most important thing is your intentions (نية. Behind every action, there are intentions. You have to ask yourself, is this action going to please Allah subhanahu wa ta3ala or not. Why are you going out to meet a girl when you know that these kinds of relationships are prohibited in Islam? Ask yourself, what’s going to be more useful to you in the day of judgement (يوم القيامة going out to meet a girl you never even saw before or using this time to read the Qur’an. Pay more attention to Islam, it’s beautiful. You guys are luck wallahi to live in a Muslim country. Here, in America, I see all types of relationships everywhere; school, street, mall, etc. and I am still able to stick to my religion, Islam and obey my Lord every where I go and any time. Alhamdulillah, I am an active member of the Muslim American Society organization here that preserves youth like me from the sinfulness of the society by increasing our knowledge of Islam and training us to become داعيات.
I hope my opinion didn’t disappoint anyone. If I were to talk deeply about this topic, It would take me foreve, but I just said what I felt needed to be said and Allah subhanahu wa ta3ala is the most knowledgeable
